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When Using The Anal Plug, Which Size Should You Choose?

A anal plug is an anal sex toy designed to be inserted into the anus during sexual activity. To facilitate insertion, butt plugs are narrow at the tip and wider in the middle. Butt plugs usually have a thin neck at the end followed by a flared base to ensure that the sex toy does not slip into the rectum. Butt plugs can be smooth or textured, and some butt plugs vibrate to provide additional stimulation. The highest quality butt plugs are made from non-porous materials, such as silicone and stainless steel.

Why use anal plugs?

Whether you want to improve your ability to masturbate alone or want to try new things with your partner, anal plugs can enhance pleasure in three ways.

  1. Provide additional stimulation: The anus and rectum are full of sensitive nerve endings, and anal plugs can stimulate these nerve endings to make the sexual experience more intense.
  2. Make you reach anal orgasm: Using anal plugs and lubricants, you can stimulate particularly sensitive sexual areas. If you have a penis, you can use an anal plug to achieve a prostatic orgasm – an orgasm achieved by massaging the prostate gland located just below the bladder near the rectum.
  3. Help you prepare for anal sex: If you want to try anal sex with your partner, anal plugs allow your sphincter muscles to get used to the feeling of anal penetration.

How to use anal plugs?

Plug anales can increase your sexual pleasure, regardless of your gender and sexual orientation. Follow this step-by-step guide to learn how to use anal plugs safely.

  • Communicate with your partner. If you want to use anal plugs with your partner, tell them why you want to incorporate them into your sex life first. You will need to ask for consent before attempting any form of sexual activity with your partner, including anal plug play.
  • Choose the right anal plug according to your needs. Do your research to find the right anal plug for you in terms of material and size. Start with small anal plugs or anal training kits, which include several different sizes of anal plugs, and work your way up to larger ones.
  • Maintain good hygiene. Any sexual activity involving the anus requires extra care when it comes to cleanliness. Without proper hygiene, the bacteria in your colon can spread to your genitals or mouth and cause an infection. Wash the anal plug with warm water and mild soap or sex toy cleaner before and after each use. Consider wearing a condom on the anal plug, especially if it’s a toy you might share with your partner or use on other parts of your body.
  • Set the mood. Get yourself excited before inserting the anal plug. The muscles relax when excited, making it easier to enjoy anal stimulation. If you are using an anal plug with your partner, try different foreplay techniques before insertion.
  • Use plenty of lubricant. Make sure you have lubricant nearby and reapply it regularly when using anal plugs. Water-based and silicon-based lubricants are suitable for most anal plug materials.
  • Take it slow. Slowly insert the anal plug, pushing the tip into the anus first. Hold for a moment to allow the anal sphincter to relax, then pull it out and rest. When ready, reinsert the anal plug and push it slightly deeper. Try deep breathing exercises to relax your muscles. Continue this exercise until you can fully insert the anal plug. Be patient – you may not be able to insert an anal plug on the first try.
  • Wear anal plugs during other sexual activities. If you have vulva, wearing an anal plug during penetrative sex can increase irritation. Using a vibrating anal plug while inserting the penis into the vagina can also arouse other sexual areas, such as the scrotum and clitoris. Consider engaging in other sexual activities such as oral sex, masturbation, or BDSM while wearing anal plugs to increase pleasure.
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What size anal plug should you buy?

Perhaps the most important part of choosing a new anal plug is choosing the correct size and proportions. Let’s look at what factors determine the size of anal plugs and how each factor affects the feel of anal plugs.

The tip

The tip of the anal plug is the first part inserted and is usually tapered to make it easier to insert and more comfortable. The tip may be pointed, curved, ridged, or a more rounded “torpedo” shape.

Each type of tip has unique advantages:
  • The sharp tip makes insertion easier
  • The rounded tip feels smoother during insertion
  • The curved tip helps stimulate the prostate gland, also known as the P-point
  • Ridged or textured tips can bring more irritation to the surface of the skin

Keep in mind that toy materials can also affect the feel of the tip. For example, if the anal plug is made of a hard material like glass or stainless steel, then the sharp tip may feel sharper. Silicone may feel softer and more pliable.

Insertable length

The insertable length refers to the part of the anal plug for woman located in the body. For most anal plugs, all parts between the tip and the bottom are insertable lengths. For example, a 6-inch anal plug can be inserted 4 inches in length and up to 4 inches deep, leaving the remaining 2 inches outside the body.

Anal plugs Beginners don’t necessarily need to choose shorter anal plugs, but starting small and gradually increasing the length as it feels comfortable can help. Let’s look at what terms such as small, medium, and large actually mean in terms of insertable length.

Anal plugs can be inserted in length dimensions
Small

Anal plugs with smaller inserts are about 2-3 inches long, or about the length of an average thumb. If you love anal knuckles and are ready to try toys, then this size is perfect.

Medium

The medium anal plug has an insertable length of about 3-4 inches, which is ideal if you want a deeper penetration but don’t want to feel too full.

Large

Large anal plugs are usually 4 to 6 inches in insertable length, which is as long as a normal penis. If you want to explore deeper anal penetration, this length is the best choice.

Extra large 

The insertion length of the oversized anal plug is usually 6 inches or more. Extra long anal plugs can have a dildo-like feel and are a good choice if you like or want to prepare for anal sex.

Now, remember that the insertion length only refers to the length of the anal plug. When choosing the size of the anal plug, it is equally important to consider the width (also known as the diameter).

Diameter

Diameter describes the width of the anal plug from one side to the other. Width and diameter may also be referred to as circumference or thickness.

When you buy anal plugs, you will usually find the dimensions in the product list, including the diameter. Some brands list circumference instead of diameter, and it’s important to know the difference between the two. The diameter measures the length of the anal plug, while the circumference measures the distance around the anal plug. An anal plug with a diameter of 3 inches will be much larger than one with a circumference of 3 inches.

Anal plug diameter
Extra Small

Any anal plug less than an inch in diameter is considered to have an ultra-small circumference.

Small 

Anal plugs, which are 1 to 1.25 inches in diameter, are smaller and perfect for novices or those who prefer more gentle stimulation.

Medium

Medium plugs are about 1.25 to 1.5 inches in diameter, or about the size of two fingers side by side.

Large 

Anal plugs 1.5 to 2 inches in diameter are considered larger, thicker than the average erect penis.

Extra Large

Anal plugs that are more than 2 inches in diameter are considered oversize and are best for experienced anal sex.

Now that you know more about length and diameter, you can find the best size for your anal plug. But before you start shopping, let’s discuss two other factors to consider when it comes to anal plug construction: the neck and the bottom.

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The neck

The neck is the connection between the main body of the anal plug and the bottom. It may be thicker to keep the anus slightly extended when inserting the anal plug, or narrower to achieve a tighter seal.

Some anal plugs have a long neck, while others are very short. There is no right or wrong answer about neck length, but a longer neck can make anal plugs easier to place and remove.

The base 

The most important part of the anal butt plug construction is the base, which must be trumpet shaped to be considered anal safe.

Some bases are round, some are square, and some are long, vertical shapes called T-shaped bases. Why is the base so important? Adequate trumpet shaped base to prevent loss of anal plugs in the body. It can also be used as a convenient handle for inserting and removing anal plugs.

What is “trumpet-enough”? There are no hard and fast rules, but it should be much wider than the anal plug body. In general, the T-shaped base is the safest base type, followed by the wide ring handle base.

While the base does not affect how the inside of the anal plug feels inside the body, you may find that certain base shapes are more comfortable or hidden than others, so take the time to explore which feel is right for you.

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